世上只有妈妈好 有妈的孩子像个宝....

This song really inspires me to think. to think about the wonderful stuff that my mum have done for me. the sacrifices that she makes. the time that she spends. the effort that she puts in. all these are deeply etched in my heart. however. there are always times that mother's nag. scold. cane. punish. they seem to be the villian. they seem to control you. to decide your every move. to not understand you. to make you fustrated. irritated. rebellious. how often do we put ourselves in their shoes and think in their stand. how often do we recognise and remember the pains and sacrifices that she puts in for you. how often do we just remember the positive sides and not just complain about the negative stuff. yes. i do agree that mothers are unreasonable at times. they do not understand our need as a teenager. our aspirations. our dreams. our longing. our FRENZ. they harp on and on with every single opportunity that they get. they go to the extent of using the things that you do as excuses to scold you. they seem like leashing you on the collar. tying you to the backward. there are times when you feel as though you are a caged bird. there are times when you want to break free. there are times when you just feel like talking back. trying to proof her wrong. trying to get the self satisfaction that she is wrong at last. trying to make her shut up. some even to the extent of planning their 'so-called' escape route. considering to leave the house. to survive on their own. however. is this really the right way to face this sort of problems. the right attitude. the rational decision. we always think that we are this bad that bad. however. have you really thought of those orphans. abandoned child. what their life is without a parent. how lucky you are to be borned into a family. a family that actually cares for you. if your mother does not care for you. gives up hope on you. do you think she would spend the time and effort to nag at you. would she cook dinner for you everyday. would she bring your assignment to school when you forget it that morning. bring you to the doctor when you are ill. take leave to be with you. all this are the stuff that we do not consider. we just feel that we are the ultimate victims here. that the whole world owes us something. try considering the less fortunate people. try picturing them. try putting urself in their shoes. do not always brood over the worst stuff. think about the good ones. always look on the bright side. no matter how bad today is. there will always be a better tomorrow. there will always be frenz and family that supports you. so LIVE strong and LIVE to the fullest extent. dun be sad. cheer up! =)